The anniversaries are hard. In the first year, they are like a baptism of fire. So be kind to yourself. Do whatever makes you comfortable, and don't be pressured by others.
This is your grief, your nightmare and others may mean well, but they don't have a clue.
I tended to stay home and ride it through. Being out or in a public place was not my thing so I spent the day at home. It was easier.
However, you may like company or the celebration.
In the end, you are the one who was widowed or lost a family member or friend. Therefore, do what is a healing for you.
Every year it seems to be less painful and in a way, you become more used to it.
Love, Wendy x
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