Tuesday 9 April 2019

Birthday tomorrow

Hi,

It is my second birthday without my husband and as you know it is unknown territory.

Made plans to meet a couple of compassionate friends at their home ....easier than out publicly. Then home to veg.

These occasions are hard to predict so plan a bit of social contact with the cancellation policy in place.

Make sure to organise a meal which simply needs heating up in case you turn into a mess by nightfall.

Being prepared will help. And factor in some down time when you can regroup.

You will get better at this but without any forethought it may be more challenging.

The first few years are going to be stressful. The loss is raw and special occasions are sad without your loved one.

Take heart because nothing lasts forever.

Love, Wendy x

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