Saturday 27 April 2019

Missing the old life

I found a lot of the sadness comes from missing the person and the times you shared together.

You have the memories but they are only shells of what you shared. 

The missing is quite acute some days and on special occasions. I cried more during these times and before, during and after the special day.

Nurture and be kind to yourself because you are hurting. There is also disappointment because life will never be the same again. That finality is difficult to bear.

In a way, I was grateful to have the memories but they highlighted the alone feeling.

Know you are not alone because thousands of us are all going through what you are...just with a different relationship.

The pain does ease, but perhaps it never really goes away.

Love, Wendy x



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