Friday 5 April 2019

The weekend desert

Well sitting here in bed. Another lonely weekend without my husband. Like you, weekends were kinda special and a time we spent together ...with family and friends.
Now I try to fill them in with an outing or some activity. Somehow the week is easier to do.
Always try to plan something even if it is going and doing your weekly shopping or a trip to the library. These seemingly little trips help to take up some of the long days.
Ring a friend or do something you enjoy. Plan to go to the movies or a show.
When you are widowed there can seem less access to others on the weekend. People seemed busier and less able to catch up.
Some of my weekends were so long....like three days not two....ha ha.
In time, you adjust to the loneliness or maybe you just get used to it.
However, plan ahead and try to contact a least one person.
We can survive this !!!
Love, Wendy x

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